Broken Hearted Advice
If you are in pain, broken hearted, and confused what to do..then you have come to the right page. If you have not been here before, we focus on having a real method for getting an ex back…not throwing out random advice and articles. If you want to get someone back successfully..you need learn about attraction, human nature, and how to have a method to make up. If you feel like guessing what to do next..stop.
Is Your Performance in the Bedroom Effecting Your Relationship?
Did you ever stop and think that maybe one of the main reasons your relationship is failing is because of whats happening in your bedroom?
Most people just attribute intimacy to fun and leisure activities, but if you and your partner are not connecting during love making it can lead to relationship problems and stress.
In fact, lack of intimacy is one of the main reason couples argue and cheat on one another. Couples who do not get intimate often feel distant and separated. This leads to stress and eventually, arguing and frustration. If your partner is bored or not in the mood anymore to be with you, they are most likely going to become frustrated..and look to someone else to feel better.
After an intimate session, certain types of positive hormones are released in your system. These chemicals then, lead to feelings of warmth, love, relaxation, and connecting. If you have been fighting all day, a better lovemaking session will instantly change all that. It can even de-stress you or your partner. Women can often associate mood swings and stressful feelings to lack of intimacy. If you regularly are intimate with your partner..you both will feel happier and more relaxed throughout the day.
So if you are suffering in a relationship, this may be a HUGE reason why your partner is frustrated with you.
Love Making can even help you stay healthy! Did you know that after the act, the human body releases antibodies which help fight a whole range of illnesses? It is also a good aerobic exercise to help you stay in shape and keep you healthy.
Must Read Before You Try Contacting Your Ex Again
Before You Call Your Ex Please Read This!
If you are heartbroken and have been dumped, it is only natural to want to reach out to your ex and try to make things work. Truth is though, if not done correctly, it is only going to damage what small connection is left between you too. So, is there some sort of method for getting your ex lover to return phone calls or texts? If done correctly, you CAN get an ex to feel compelled to return a call and talk to you. This is one of the biggest questions out there and if done correctly, and virtually save your relationship. The trick is to get your ex talking to you again…you must have them WANT to initiate the contact and not feel obligated.
How do you get them to do this? Below is some information to get you started in the right direction.
First though, here is what doesn’t work and puts you in a far worse position than before.
The PLEAD- This message is going to sound like-
“Hey Ben, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.
“Stacy, this is an emergency. Please call me as son as you get this.”
I also love the I FOUND YOUR STUFF call.
Pretty lame. These are approaches everyone is making. I think you can see why these dont work….
—–To Get an Ex to Return Calls you Must Use Curiosity and Self Interest To You Advantage!
Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are curiosity and self interest. When your ex sees you calling they wonder.. should I answer..? whats in it for me…?
and here’s the secret!
when you combine both of these interests you will get a recipe that will work like magic! You can use different methods of curiosity and self interest to make your ex Want to Call You…and not feel obligated!
First, you must not contact your ex for awhile. Make them feel like the breakup wasn’t really that great of a loss for you. When you do contact them though, you must act disinterested in them. Make them feel you aren’t really that into them anymore. Here is one example of how using curiosity and self interest may work for you–
“Hi Ben. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me if you want so I can thank you in person.
Now that uses curiosity and self interest.
Ben is wondering..hmmm. what did I do.? Why is she not upset at me and that i dumped her now????What does she appreciate about me?
Before you call you need to do the
“Set Up”…which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing…but needs to
But more importantly…PLEASE have an underlying strategy.
If you go head on with no strategy..you will do more damage than good.
What I am saying is…
What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.
Have a plan and you can succeed.
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