Ladies, Don’t Make The Same Mistakes with Men!
Are you making the same mistakes with men?
I know how hard it is to find a good man. So when you find one, don’t ruin your chances by making these deadly mistakes. Remember, attractive men have date a lot of women so they know what’s going on. The result? They will disappear before you realize you’ve done anything wrong.
Here are 5 major things that many many women do that blow their chances with their boyfriend… and how to avoid these disasters.
Mistake #1: Sharing your feelings with him too early
Men love their freedom and independence no mysteries there! So when you announce that you love him, it often sets off a trigger that you might be one of those “clingy types.” Remember that the early stages of dating should always remain casual.
Only after you get to know each other really well should you pursue anything further. It’s also worth mentioning that you can’t logically convince someone to fall in love with you. Falling in love is a process that happens outside the conscious mind remember that. When you feel that rush of warmth and you get the fuzzy butterflies in your stomach that just means that you like him, if things go well then you will know when you love him, when you feel that deeper appreciation for him being in your life everyday. This type of intimate understanding cannot be discovered quickly, but there is no time line for these things. Just be happy that you have found someone you like who likes you back! Take it slow and your relationship will unfold naturally.
Mistake #2: Trying to push it too far too soon
It’s natural to wonder about the nature of your relationship, “Does he want more? Or is this just a fling?” But remember, if you start talking about marriage after only 12 months, you could ruin your chances to take things further. And if you don’t live together, doing his groceries or his laundry isn’t a good idea either. Even making him dinner without special plans can seem too invasive.
A nice meal once in a while is okay, but don’t make it a regular thing. Yes, it’s true, many men are scared of commitment; but just because they don’t want it now, doesn’t mean they don’t want to settle down. They just need time. Women feel much differently about relationships than men do, especially at the beginning. Although some men are willing to commit, no man wants a clingy girlfriend who only thinks about getting married one day. Even if he is your soul mate, he won’t be sticking around very long if that’s all you think and talk about!
Mistake #3: Being too available
You might think this is playing a mind game or being manipulative, but putting your best side forward is also manipulative. Why? Because it’s done to get a desirable outcome. This is simply a reminder to be who you were before you met the man and continue to be that person, rather than use trickery.
Remember that your busy, interesting and fun life only has so much time for him, no matter how much you like him. And remember, men love a challenge, so this actually works in your favor. Not only will he be more interested in you, but you will find that you are more interested in him too!
Mistake #4: Not being yourself
Men love confident women with a strong sense of self-worth. Unfortunately, women often try to guess how the man wants them to act and try to accommodate his mold, which leaves very little room for your own personality to shine. (And yes, men do this too.) In other words, they love her strength. It’s very attractive.
Mistake #5: Appealing to his sexual side too much
Believe it or not, it’s NOT make-up, dyed hair, pretty clothes or even nice shoes that attract men, not into a successful long-term relationships anyway! While “looks” is the obvious factor that seems to get an instant response from men, long-term success comes with finding a man who admires and respects you regardless of your exterior. If your man only likes you for your looks, then he doesn’t really love you.
So there you have it. The 5 big mistakes that women make while they’re dating men. Avoid these mistakes and you’ll dramatically increase the chances of succeeding with him… here are a few more links to help you on your way!
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